This video that surfaced of Yoochun supposedly slapping a fangirl has everyone going insane. I don’t know when it happened. I’m commenting now because I read some stupid post and felt the need to address the situation. Even if I am late to the party. There were people rushing to defend him and other’s rushing to condemn him. First, I’m a women and a fan and I’m not going to condemn him. It might seem as if I’m defending him that might be true as well but I’m just here to state facts.

1.       The video is way too blurry to tell what is actually happening. There is too much going on in the foreground to accurately assess what is going on in the background. Not, that I’m saying that the person in the video isn’t Yoochun. I’m just saying that video isn’t good enough evidence for me to hang him out to dry.

2.       If anyone of the people who are weighing in on this incident, be they condemners or defenders, were being constantly stalked, harassed, and touched without permission they would probably get fed up and lose their temper as well. I’m not saying that he slapped her or that if he did he is justified it depends, he might be justified, but you trying having no privacy and see how you feel.

3.       I don’t like this fucking double standard feminist bullshit. That is probably the one thing that made me write this. I saw a post and some chick said that she is a feminist and she can’t believe Yoochun would hit anybody let alone a women. If the girl who posted the comments that sparked this wasn’t a feminist who is obsessed with double standards, then I apologize for everything I’m about to say. What the fuck, ever.  Look if a fan can hit them, they can hit a fan. Like my mom always told me if you bold enough or old enough to lay your hands on somebody, then you can take whatever you get in return. I don’t know if the girl hit Yoochun. I don’t know what happened. But I hated that post because I hate feminist and the double standards they want to apply while still wanting equality. All the things crazy fans have did to kpop artists; nobody ever turns it into something this stupid. I feel that they have the right to defend themselves as they see fit against any fan or person.

4.       Nobody knows what the fuck happened except for Yoochun and that fan. If she hasn’t come forward claiming to be assaulted and no one has anything that can prove otherwise, like I said the video proves nothing, then I’m going to need everyone to shut up and leave the man alone. In the U.S. there is the beautiful law that states you are innocent until proven guilty. I’m guessing that this incident happened in Korea. I don’t know if the same rules apply but I’m sticking to the U.S. method. I’m sick of people condemning him when they don’t even know if he really slapped her.

5.       Lastly, I don’t believe in men abusing women. But some women push too much and too far and they have to deal with the consequences. Some women need to be slapped. Like the ones who hit a man and then expect not to get hit back. Or the ones who dare a man to hit them and then look upset and cry when he does. I don’t believe in men abusing women but one slap isn’t abuse and some women deserve it. I’m sorry ladies if you don’t like that.

I know I’m contradicting myself slightly in this post with 2 and 5 but like I said I’m not saying that if he slapped her he is justified. I’m just voicing my own opinion that sometimes some women need to be slapped.  That’s how I feel, I have no idea how Yoochun feels about this matter I haven’t had the chance to discuss it with him. Next time I see him, I’ll ask.

The bashing is upsetting me, but not as much as the fact that I can’t finish my Yunchun stories because some writers are assuming that Yoochun slapped that girl. I’m slightly kidding and a whole lot serious, I wants my Yunchun fanfiction and the feminist chick whose story I was reading before she so rudely stopped umm could you please think over your decision to become a feminist or the decision to condemn Chunnie without knowing all the facts and finish the goddamn story or let someone pick it up at least. All I’m saying is before you decide to stop being fans of JYJ. Before you stop hoping for the return of the Gods of the East as DB5K. Before you stop writing fanfiction with Yoochun in it!!!!  Get your shit together and think this through. Nobody that is commenting knows what happened so don’t judge because I’ m pretty sure all of these people sitting behind their computer screens bashing Yoochun aren’t perfect.

Yoochunnie, hwaiting!!!!! (^_^) kk

(Source: hoshiradio.livejournal.com)